Jane Lichtman, obituary

Tue, 04/19/2022 - 7:00pm

Jane Lichtman, age 99.5, affectionately known as the “Mayor of Main Street Waldoboro” and to many as “Nana” or “Bubbe” passed away peacefully on April 5, 2022 in Camden, Maine.

Majorie Jane Davidson was the second daughter of Marion (née Oppenheimer) and Morris Davidson. She was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on Sept. 26, 1922. She was a lively tomboy who much preferred climbing trees, roller skating, and causing neighborhood havoc rather than sitting quietly in school.

Jane first fell in love with Maine at an overnight camp when she took a train as a five-year old from Philadelphia to Camp Waziyatah in Harrison, Maine. She looked forward to it every summer and eventually helped manage the dining hall as a teenager.

Jane married Robert Lichtman on Dec 11, 1941. The family relocated many times throughout the country with their three children. They retired to Waldoboro in 1988 following her son John and wife Jackie’s move to Friendship.

Jane believed strongly in community service and throughout her life she volunteered at hospitals, museums, her children’s scout trips, synagogues and a variety of non-profit organizations. Jane quickly rose to a regional leadership position with Hadassah, a Jewish women’s group, which was a great source of pride. Many remember her involvement with the Waldoboro Women’s Club, Waldoboro Food Pantry, Waldoboro Recreation Committee, Waldoboro Days, along with her work at Clark’s Drug Store and the Waldoboro Library. Her dedication to her community inspired two of her granddaughters to pursue Masters in Social Work.

Jane was known for her daily walks wearing her signature reflective vest with her beloved little dog Peanutz, stopping at every store to get the latest gossip. Mah Jongg was an important part of her life, she taught an adult-ed class at MVHS and organized a twice a week match (often at her apartment). Up until 2018 Jane lived alone and enjoyed her independence; unfortunately around Thanksgiving of that year she had a bad fall (breaking her femur and several ribs) and had to spend a week at Miles Hospital. The doctors said she had 4 days to live, but good ole Jane proved them wrong by 1,235 days (3 years, 4 months, 19 days).

After leaving Miles, Jane was moved to the assisted living center Bella Point in Camden. Jane needed to stay busy, so even though she was failing physically and mentally she often offered to help out around the facility. The nurses allowed her to fold laundry and her Mah Jongg friends visited her for weekly matches. On January 25, 2022, the nurses believed that she was rapidly declining, she had stopped eating and was spending all day in bed. The hospice nurse thought she had days to live. Several family members rushed home to say goodbye. Although she wasn’t cognizant, their visits revived her and yet again Jane proved everyone wrong by living 71 more days.

What she loved most were her family, bringing people together, hosting dinner parties, demanding crispy fries at Moody’s, and speaking her mind. Generous in spirit, boundless in energy, small in stature, this remarkable mother, grandmother, great grandmother and friend will be sorely missed.

Jane is predeceased by her husband, Robert “Bob,” and survived by her children David (and spouse Reina) Lichtman of Spring Valley, New York, Barbara Newman (Salem, Massachusetts), John Lichtman (and spouse Jackie George) of Friendship, Maine, niece Lynne McNeal (Woodland, Washington) as well as 10 grandchildren and 21 great-grandchildren.

The family would especially like to thank the staff at Bella Point for the patient and kind care Jane received there for the past several years. An additional appreciation is given to Burpee, Carpenter and Hutchins Funeral Home for their exceptional care with the final arrangements.

Jane was a member of Adas Yoshuron synagogue (Rockland, Maine).

A private burial was held at Berliawsky-Small Cemetery in Rockland, Maine.